Sunday, May 8, 2011

My rant today is about dealing with inconsiderate people who always have some excuse for their behavior. I never have dealt well with these type of people....I usually remove them from my life in order to keep things peaceful. It works well except on the occasion when you can't do that. My second choice is to keep contact to a bare minimum which works well the majority of the time. There are times though when despite my efforts, the inconsiderate actions of other causes disruption and chaos. Its these times that I have to really focus on remembering that I am in control of my feelings....and I need to make sure that I move past the anger towards these people for their actions. I have a hard time having any sort of relationship with people I don't respect....and I lose respect for people who are so self centered that they have no consideration for anyone else. It is difficult when you must have a relationship of sorts with people like this. Talking doesn't work because they have a million and one excuses. I am left trying to find a way to deal with it. Usually I let stuff just roll off....but every now and then I get a little hung up and feel the need to GRR. LOL. One of the hardest lessons in life for me is learning to deal with people I have no respect for. I guess I haven't quite learned that lesson yet because it keeps coming up! Ah well, I suppose I will get it figured out eventually! I feel better already so thanks for listening to my rant. :-)

I had a great Mothers day....spent it with my mom and sis in law and my now I'm spending a little time with the kids and cuddle time with my hubby.....tops it off perfectly.


  1. Holy crap I can totally relate!!! I wonder how some folks can be so self-centered it makes you wonder how they survived to become adults.
    I'm glad you had a nice mother's day, have an awesome day tomorrow :)

  2. I am so sorry that you have to put up with that. It is always better to break ties if possible. But if not - then tell it like it is sister. :-)